Traveling With Your Partner
standard

Traveling With Your Partner

Traveling is one of the most incredible gifts you can ever give to yourself; and it’s no secret that traveling with your boyfriend/girlfriend, can be the biggest test – or testament to your relationship. The experience of travel (and not just vacationing) will reveal so much about your relationship and compatibility with one another, and […]

READ ARTICLE
They
standard

They’re Not Called Rules

All too often I hear women say, “I don’t want to follow any rules”; and they are almost always saying this in reference to dating. It’s possibly one of the most infuriating things to hear, especially because these same women are usually complaining about their dating lives and/or their relationships. But that’s not even the […]

READ ARTICLE
Girl on Girl Crime
standard

Girl on Girl Crime

Photo Credit – We Heart It I don’t know about you, but I love women. They are beautiful, strong, spiritual, connected, feeling beings – well, most of them. But as a whole, I choose to love women; and if it were up to me, we’d all feel the same. Imagine that. A world where we, much […]

READ ARTICLE
Breaking the Cycle
standard

Breaking the Cycle

I sometimes wonder how someone who’s had a difficult life and upbringing might feel when reading my posts. That perhaps they may think it’s easy to be positive when your life’s been relatively painless. And that’s why I’d like to emphasize the importance of breaking the cycle, especially for those who’ve had it rough. It’s something […]

READ ARTICLE
How do You Know if He or She
standard

How do You Know if He or She’s “The One”

After posting my previous article, “Haven’t met the love of your life – or have you?”, I was asked to write an article to help guide women into knowing when they have met “the one”. This is no easy question to answer because we are all so different. We have different issues, different struggles and […]

READ ARTICLE
Haven’t Met the Love of Your Life
standard

Haven’t Met the Love of Your Life – Or Have You?

Photo Credit – We Heart It I often hear women ask how or when they will ever meet that special someone they can depend on to be their companion for life – or at least a good part of it. While it is entirely possible that these same women have truly never met someone they can […]

READ ARTICLE
Turning 30
standard

Turning 30

Photo Credit – We Heart It There was a time when I absolutely feared the idea of turning 30. What would I do without the scapegoat of being a twenty something year old? And how about the fact that I’m not married and I have no children? Doesn’t a thirty year old need to be […]

READ ARTICLE
How to Stop Liking the “Bad Boys”
standard

How to Stop Liking the “Bad Boys”

I think this may be one of the worst plagues afflicting my sisters, the conditioning of liking the “bad boys”. Let me begin by saying that not only do I get it, I’ve also been there myself. I understand the woes of feeling like you’re just not attracted to the nice guys that come your way; […]

READ ARTICLE
Accepting Change
standard

Accepting Change

Photo Credit – We Heart It I write this to you and in all honestly, I write this to myself. It’s about something that’s so important for living happily & freely. It’s about accepting change. While it might be a simple enough concept to grasp, I think we can agree that it proves to be more difficult to […]

READ ARTICLE
Rethinking Infidelity
standard

Rethinking Infidelity

Photo Credit – We Heart It The other day, a friend of mine shared a Ted Talk video with me titled, Rethinking Infidelity. The talk was given by Esther Perel, a well known relationship therapist and author of the book, Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence. Her talk explores the deeper layers of why people cheat, and reveals that it’s […]

READ ARTICLE
Too Much Too Soon
standard

Too Much Too Soon

Too much too soon… this pretty much applies to anything. If you start at a pace that cannot be sustained in any area of your life, the only way to go is down. And I’m sure you don’t want to do that. When it comes to dating, my theory and one that I’ve practiced in both directions […]

READ ARTICLE
Part 2: He (or she) shouldn’t complete you
standard

Part 2: He (or she) shouldn’t complete you – 8 Steps to Self-fulfillment

Photo Credit – We Heart It It seems that last week’s article, “He (or she) Shouldn’t Complete You” really resonated with many of you in a positive way – and I couldn’t be happier for that. To further echo the sentiment, I was asked if I could write a second part to this article, describing […]

READ ARTICLE
He (or she) shouldn’t complete you
standard

He (or she) shouldn’t complete you

Photo Credit – We Heart It “He (or she) completes me”… If what you actually mean to say, is that your significant other adds happiness and fulfillment to your already amazing life, then great. But complete you? If you did not feel complete before entering this relationship, the chances of it working out aren’t really in […]

READ ARTICLE
Knowing what truly matters makes for easier decisions (most of the time)
standard

Knowing what truly matters makes for easier decisions (most of the time)

It seems a simple enough concept to say that the more you know what matters, the easier it is to make decisions. But when you really truly grasp this, and even more importantly, find yourself applying it, it’s actually, kind of life changing. We (as in I), spend enough time worrying about the right decisions to […]

READ ARTICLE
Put it in Your Pocket
standard

Put it in Your Pocket

Photo Credit – We Heart It I’d like to touch on a point that I think is very important when you’re getting to know someone. The idea of “putting it in your pocket.” What does this mean? It means seeing something good or bad (ok usually in reference to something not so good), taking note […]

READ ARTICLE
10 Things to Stop Doing Today
standard

10 Things to Stop Doing Today

Photo Credit – We Heart It We’re all creatures of habit. The question is, how good or bad are these habits? Actually, let me put it differently: how close (or far) do these habits bring you towards your goals and the life that you want to live? Here are 10 habits we’re all better off without: 1. […]

READ ARTICLE
Feeling the Synchronicity
standard

Feeling the Synchronicity

It can be hard in this life of endless distractions, to truly know & feel when you’re on the right track, or which decision to make. That’s why the feeling of being in sync with something or someone, feels so damn good. Do you know the feeling? It’s almost like you’re dancing with the Universe, […]

READ ARTICLE
Get Out of the Box
standard

Get Out of the Box

Photo Credit – We Heart It How often do we tell ourselves what we like and don’t like? And how different would our lives be, if we didn’t put ourselves into these mentally confined boxes? I imagine things would be a lot more exciting. I started to think more about this, when I finally decided to […]

READ ARTICLE
Don’t Fall in Love – RISE in Love
standard

Don’t Fall in Love – RISE in Love

Photo Credit – We Heart It Do you ever wonder why we refer to the process of realizing you love someone, and feeling those deep rooted feelings of affection towards another (usually in reference to romantic love), as falling in love? Why is it not more commonly referred to as rising in love? When we […]

READ ARTICLE
The Prerogative to Say No
standard

The Prerogative to Say No

It never ceases to surprise me, how many women are afraid to say “no”. Whether this be a no to helping someone, attending a social affair, going on a date, inviting a man over, and the worst of them all, having sex. I’m just so curious, where this fear of saying no has derived from. Is […]

READ ARTICLE