If you’ve been hearing a lot about vision work lately – it’s for good reason.
Businesses create visions all the time, for their company, their growth, their future. You may have even ventured into vision board making once or twice – nice shiny car, big house on the water, sexy man in your life. Or something of the sorts. But how about a vision for your ideal relationship – something that I know matters to you.
Visions offer clarity and help you engage in thoughts, words and actions that are aligned to your vision – so that you can live your most fulfilled life. They also help your mind to “see” what you want, which makes it both easier to believe and achieve. Sounds pretty great, right?
Before you go running off to dream up your perfect relationship, I’d like to offer one little (big) nugget of advice:
Make your relationship vision from an empowered place, not a fearful lack-based one.
Let me clarify.
There’s a difference between creating your vision based on all the things that went wrong in your past relationships that you don’t want to create again, OR creating your vision based on all the things you know you deserve and are excited to experience. And for the love of you, choose the latter!
I only suggest creating your empowered relationship vision when you’re feeling good – actually, make that great. And be careful not to fall into the trap of talking about all the things you don’t want. Talk about what you DO want.
Since most people are clearer on what they don’t want, you can start by writing all the things you absolutely do not want in your relationship – and then write down the polar opposite of each of those things.
This is just a starting point, because we want to take this so much further than simply creating the reverse of what you’ve experienced in the past – this is your opportunity to get clear and honest on what you truly want to experience in your ideal relationship, independent of any past hurt or mistakes.
We want to get uber clear on your core desired feelings. We want to get real intimate with the details of how this relationship looks and feels. We want to feel like we’re already there, living that glorious experience.
If the thought of this gets your love juices flowing, I’d love to help you out. Click this link to tell me a little about your needs and request a free consultation with me.
Peace, love and empowered relationship vision,