Which do you think of more often; how exciting it will be to meet your soulmate – or how much it sucks that he or she isn’t here yet?
If you’re being honest, you’re likely worried and feeling their absence more often than you’re hopeful and satisfied with the now. And I get it. It’s discouraging and disappointing when you want something, try for it, and feel like you’re coming up empty handed.
I’m asking you to keep an open mind and open heart to receive what I’m about to say next:
There’s a big difference between lining up with the energy of a problem (no special someone), and lining up with the energy of a solution (meeting your soulmate).
As a student of Abraham Hicks, one of the concepts that’s become intensely clear to me is that the energy of the problem is entirely different from that of the solution – and based on my emotions, I can know which I’m vibing with.
When I feel fear, worry, doubt or any kind of anxiety, I’m in the essence of the problem and cannot see the solution. And when I’m hopeful, positive and joyous, I don’t even have to look for the answers, they’re always there right in front of me.
And this goes for you and aligning to the energy of your soulmate.
If you can consistently and authentically be more in the vibe of joy and good humour, you will easily and effortlessly line up with more that matches that – including your good vibe soulmate. And if you can’t feel positive about meeting someone, then focus your thoughts and energy on things that do easily make you feel good.
Tune into appreciation and thoughts of abundance; it’s your present belief in your soulmate’s absence that keeps them out of site. Like Abraham says, you have to tune in to the station you want to hear. If you’re broadcasting one signal and the solution another, you can’t hear it!
The thing is most people try this for a short while (and are mostly faking it), and give up because they don’t see the results. And this is where feeling good, for the sake of feeling good comes in. You can’t trick the Universe; it responds to the energy you’re putting out and will send you more of what matches it.
If you want a positive experience with a positive person, tune into the “solution” and watch all your positive dreams show up for you.
Peace, love and aligning to the energy of your soulmate,